How to Teach Your Child about Patriotism

If you are like most Americans, you celebrated the Fourth of July on Monday.  Whether you attended a neighborhood barbecue, watched the spectacular fireworks show at the park or, participated in some other type of fanfare, you acknowledged the holiday in some way.

Besides all the fun and games, what does your child think about Patriotism?  I am not necessarily talking about American History.  Depending upon their grade level, you can be assured that your child has learned about the United States.  

Last year, our third grade students learned about American Heroes while their fifth grade peers took a serious look at the American Revolution.  Even kindergarteners learned about good citizenship, symbols like the flag and they sang patriotic songs.  Is that enough?  What should parents teach their children about America?  Here are some thoughts to share:

1. America is a free country.  This means that the citizens who live here have the right to make choices about their own lives.  We are free to choose our levels of education, our professions and our expressions.  We can think about and believe in what we choose to. 
2. Freedom is ours but it isn’t really free.  Many people have risked or even given their lives so that we can be free.  It is given to us freely but we need to follow laws set down for us in order to keep our freedom.  When you work hard and respect our country’s laws, you show others that you are earning the right to keep this amazing gift.
3. The best citizens are the ones who respect others.  It is wise to treat others equally.  Do not make assumptions about people based on their race, religion or gender. 
4. A good citizen is a person who serves others—either at home or abroad.  There are many ways to do this and being in the military is only one avenue.  People who wish to serve can do this in many capacities.  Service jobs include medical professionals, firefighters, police officers and teachers.  And if you choose to work in a non-service capacity, that is fine also.  Think about volunteering as a way of giving back to others.   

I am very proud to be an American, proud of this beautiful country, proud of the incredible people who live here.  When I see a soldier, I try to remember to say, “thank you” for what they are doing for us and others.  There is no greater place in the world, if you ask me!  Please teach your children to believe in, appreciate and be a part of this wonderful nation. God Bless the USA!